Few basis thumb rules should follow in relationships.
Things to be consider Before entering in a relationship
Romantic relationship meant differently for different peoples
If we talk about types/colors of love then we can have fair idea from s book ‘The Colors of Love’ published in 1973 of Canadian psychologist, John Alan Lee. This book actually explains six basic love styles.
A relationship you couldn’t bank upon: – Plz be careful before involving higher degree of relationship with people of such (LUDUS) nature. For them relationship is not more than a game.where breakup doesn’t break a person bcus they fill the place with replacement ASAP.Please be specific while choose your someone special.
Flourishing Love with time and patience (Storage style).To become familiar with family, parents. This kind of Love relationship is mature and stands for long lasting. Where both are understating kind and kith of each other.
Couples who come close to each other with a practical approach not bcus of there madness. They are much logical about their approach in relationship. They frame PRAGMA relationship.
EROS style love relationship people have only outer beauty attraction mostly sexually they attract towards their partner without any long term relationship longevity in their mind. This is mix of craziness without knowing kin & kith of relationships.
AGAPE kind of love relationship most beautiful It is the union in which a partner isn’t someone who comes in one’s life to make things better, rather, he/she is considered as a gift, a responsibility, a blessing that needs to be cherished and taken care of, even if it costs one his/her own comfort and needs. The happiness of the other person comes before one’s own happiness.
MANIA kind Relationship:-Partners become reason for each other for their living. They over obsessive, extreme dependency for each other. In initial stage this relationship seems v pretty, after word in some cases it turns out to be potentially dangerous, as the partner may also become extremely violent and mentally unstable.
Extremely Important factors in lasting Relationships
There will always be tough times to muddle through in relationships, but overall, your significant other should be a beacon of light in your life. But responsibilities do not fall on them alone to maintain your happiness. That should always be a team (you & your partner) effort. Maintaining a healthy, happy relationship requires you to make daily choices that leave your ego behind and to act in the best interest of your relationship rather than just yourself.
3 A’s for any healthy relationship: